Samira Dogra Gupta
Society has become so fake that the truth actually bothers people. You relax on a plane, even though you don’t know the pilot. You relax on a ship, even though you don’t know the captain. You relax on a bus, even though you don’t know the driver. Why don’t you relax in life knowing that universe is in control?
“This is such a brief life-doing what you truly care for is the only way to make your life worthwhile”.
If you know how to handle your thoughts and emotions, there will be no such things as anxiety, stress or tension that leads to depression for you. Depression, looser, taboo- Why do we need to use these words.
When a life is born, that is in itself an achievement. That life is a combination of sad and happy emotions. A life is born in a society. A society has some fixed rules to be followed. As we grow up we are shaped to follow those rules. We are taught to achieve a status in the society. So, from our childhood we start planning things the way we are told. There comes the word “Depression”
What is “Depression”?
Depression is – fundamentally you expected something to happen but it didn’t happened the way you thought and you are simply against what is happening, that’s all or may be you are against a person or maybe you are against whole situation, maybe you are against life itself. Accordingly, the depression will run deeper and deeper.
But why are you against something? Only because things did not go the way you want them to be, isn’t it?
Why the whole world should go your way? Please know the world does not go your stupid way. It is not according to you always. With failure there is always a success, so with success there can be failure also. So when we enjoy success, happiness with open heart, then why the failure and sorrow is not accepted with same heart.
So either you have no faith in the creator or you have no acceptance or both and you have a hyper-sensitive ego. That’s why we get depressed. So much pain is caused by one to another. Why the rules that are made to make us live happily take a life.
Now comes the point to think- where are we heading to.?
Grooming should be done in such a way that we develop a personality that is ready to face the world. Life is not the same always. Nothing is permanent.(not even our relations) Relation change, we lose our loved ones, as this is the truth of life. Things will come and go, so be stable and handle them, be prepared for them. Be strong to live the way the things come up with you.
So, Why not groom in such a way that we believe in “Karma”
Karma- When people insult you don’t get offended, don’t take it personally, but do listen to their words. They are telling you how they see the world, and they are telling you they see the world, and they are telling you the exact negative qualities that they possess.
“The law of mirror” states that one can only see what’s in them, regardless, if it is what is actually present in reality or not. So high time for us to think how to groom our children. Make them strong for both up and down of society. Show them the truth of life. Make them feel that no matter what happens in their future for us they will always be precious. There life is precious, rest everything is “secondary”.
Everybody’s requirement from the life is different. So nobody is happy. The life has no limit. So what is required is talk to people spread love and make a new rule which makes everybody feel that nothing is important in this world than the life.
You should keep on moving with life and believe in yourself to act well in life.
Be supportive and bring happiness around.
Society is because of us, we are not for society.
Samira Dogra Gupta