Sir,
We the regularized, female, RT & Third teachers of J&K, want to draw kind attention of the Chief Minister Omar Abdullah, Comnr, Sec. School Education towards the plight of our social, familial and martial lives.
We are facing immense stress and strain as we are not able to do justice to our familial and marital obligations as most of us are married outside our villages and we are not able to be present in our in-laws/husband’s homes because of our postings, which again gives us a sense of being homelessness after marriage, and all knowing, it is the woman’s religious, and socio moral obligation to be present in their husband’s home after marriage.
We as female members of our families have also to work as a mother, daughter-in-law and a spouse, and we have to be more responsible towards our families than our male counterparts, as it is the woman who makes a home and looks after it’s daily chores.
Due to our postings we are not able to do justice to the upbringing of our wards and the lookafter of our aged in-laws. It is worthwhile to mention that many of us get deprived of an immediate family hood status, which again is a matter of very serious concern.
All these things lead and result in stressful and unpleasant situations in our familial lives and lead to further deteriorations and divisions in one’s family life.
We request all the aforementioned, to please for the sake of longlasting survival of our domestic, marital lives, please frame such a transfer policy for such female married teachers, who are married outside their villages and towns, which may allow them to serve in the areas nearer to their in-law’s homes or in the revenue villages, Edu.zones of their in-laws.
Yours etc….
Shameema Bano
Kupwara, Kashmir
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