Families battle loss year after Pahalgam attack
NEW DELHI, Apr 21: The Indian Army on Tuesday issued a stern warning to the perpetrators of terrorism on the eve of the first anniversary of the Pahalgam attack, asserting the response is decisive when “boundaries of humanity are crossed” as families of the victims said they are still coming to grips with the loss.
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As a tribute to those who lost their lives in the attack that took place in the meadows of Baisaran valley, a memorial has been erected in the hill resort of Pahalgam.
Built of black marble, it bears the names of the 26 victims – 25 tourists and local ponywallah Adil Shah – and has been constructed along the banks of the Lidder river.
For the family of N Ramachandran, one of the tourists killed, nothing has changed and the family is yet to recover from his untimely death.
Ramachandran, 65, on holiday in Kashmir with his wife, daughter, and grandchildren, was gunned down by terrorists in the attack on April 22 that sent shockwaves across the country, prompting India to launch Operation Sindoor, a military response targeting terror launchpads in Pakistan.
Arathi R Menon, before whose eyes her father was killed, said there was nothing more for her to say about the tragedy.
“What more to say. I don’t want to say anything more. A year has gone by, everything is the same. So, I don’t want to comment anything about it. Right now I am not in a state to comment anything. I am so sorry,” she said in Kochi.
She also said she was in Kochi on-and-off for the past one year and will now return to Dubai permanently.
Ahead of the anniversary of the dastardly act, the Army in a post on X, said, “When boundaries of humanity are crossed, the response is decisive. Justice is Served. India Stands United. #SindoorAnniversary #JusticeEndures #NationFirst.”
The post, heavily symbolic, also carried a digital poster bearing a silhouetted image of the map of India with the caption “SOME BOUNDARIES SHOULD NEVER BE CROSSED.”
The ‘O’ in the word ‘CROSSED’ was depicted by a bowl carrying a dash of ‘sindoor’ (vermilion), and a tagline at the bottom printed in crimson hue, read, “INDIA DOES NOT FORGET” with a red line drawn at the bottom.
After launching the decisive military operation, the Indian Army in a post on X on May 7 last year had said, “#PahalgamTerrorAttack Justice is Served. Jai Hind!” along with a digital poster that carried the name ‘OPERATION SINDOOR’. One of the Os in ‘SINDOOR’ was portrayed as a bowl carrying a dash of ‘sindoor’.
For the family of Lt Vinay Narwal, the Indian Navy officer who was among those killed, too, life hasn’t been the same.
Lt Vinay, 26, and his wife Himanshi were on a honeymoon in Pahalgam when terrorists shot him at point-blank range.
Speaking to reporters at his Karnal residence, Rajesh Narwal, a government employee, said for the past one year, the family has been grappling with the loss.
He said that his son’s death was not only painful for the family, but also a major loss for the nation.
The family of Manjunath Rao, a realtor from Shivamogga in Karnataka, says the trauma remains etched in their minds even as they try to move on with life.
“They cannot forget anything. It remains in their minds. But life has to go on… They have no choice but to cope. His wife is not willing to speak about it… What is there to say? Life has to go on,” his cousin Ravi Kiran said.
Rao (47) was shot dead in front of his wife Pallavi and their son.
Forty-one-year-old IT professional Bharath Bushan from Bengaluru also fell victim to bullets while his wife and their then three-year-old son survived the attack.
Bushan’s father V Chennaveerappa was unwilling to speak about the incident, only saying, “We are in a lot of pain. I don’t wish to speak about it. My wife is also unwell. We are in deep distress.”
Pragati Jagdale, who lost her husband Santosh Jagdale and his best friend Kaustubh Ganbote, said, “We were all happy, taking pictures at Baisaran Valley when suddenly gunshots were heard. Within moments, terrorists targeted my husband, his friend Kaustubh Ganbote, and other unarmed Hindu tourists on the basis of religion and killed them.”
She said she saw her husband and his friend being killed in front of her eyes.
“The incident has deeply scarred my psyche and it is not possible to forget that trauma,” she said.
Daughter Asavari said she and her mother continue to suffer from anxiety, disturbed sleep and heightened fear, especially at sudden loud sounds.
“If there is a loud noise, even something like firecrackers, we panic – wondering whether it is another attack. There is always a sense of fear, even around strangers. It has changed the way we live,” she said.
Despite counselling and medical support over the past year, the psychological scars remain deep.
“I don’t think any treatment can erase this memory or reduce its intensity. It will stay with us for life,” she added. (PTI)
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