Sahar Rohmetra
I observe our society does not allow a woman to go out alone, a beggar to have a hope and an honest person to rise. I even feel guilty when I speak “the hope is the only way” because a person is not allowed to live here on his own hardwork, dedication and honesty. People think that today’s generation cannot handle the world or isn’t enough mature to take decisions on their own. They are themselves turning their kids against them by not relying on them, not listening to their opinions but sermonising them all the time, and comparing them with other kids just to motivate them? By doing so making them depressed. I’m not questioning your parenting here. I’m just speaking on the behalf of today’s generation telling them to ‘grow up’. All of us know that everyone gossips behind each other’s back like the ladies with no work. Those who do this dirty job must be having a smile on their face right now, but instead of smiling, you should feel ashamed of yourself.
This reflects what kind of a person you are. You know that no one is perfect. Even I’m not so. Before you start pointing fingers, just make sure your hands are clean. Let me ask you something, who gave you the right to judge? Don’t you have any other work to do? I don’t think you do anything because you are too busy pinpointing other’s mistakes and faults which you can’t even figure your out! So, before you judge anyone’s life or gossip about him….walk in his shoes, walk the path he has travelled, live his sorrow, his doubts, his fear, his pain and laughter.
Remember, everyone has a story. When you’ve lived his life, then you can judge that person. Also people take each and every step of their life thinking what will others think, but I want to ask you a question: is it your life or theirs? It’s yours right…so why are you thinking so much! People just need something to gossip about, whether you succeed or fail they will always talk. all you need to do is stand up on your feet, ignore what everyone says and do whatever you think is good for you. And even if someone tries to change himself, the society again drags that person down to the orthodox idealogy. So, you people need to give some space to yourself and others,you need to understand that ‘what is the need of the hour? So here I ask you a question who do you choose to be,” A person who will become part of this society or a person who will bring change in this society?” because ‘one man can make a difference.’