Pinaki Bakshi
“Success is not, what we achieve alive,
Success is that essence, that we leave behind.”
The beautiful cluster of words said by Subroto Bagchi is not just about success, but also about that back force, which continuously keeps on motivating us, something that leads us to self-determination, self-perseverance, something that adds on the weight of success in our lives and that force is none other than “Self- Motivation”. Self- Motivation is the driving force behind success and growth. In order to have self- motivation, one needs to remember that, “We are the reason of our happiness and we are the reason of our sadness.” The way one can interpret our self or one can justify our self, is quite better than the way others can. One should understand that, we need not to depend upon others for our happiness.
“Our self- company is the best company.”
Why we feel like dependent upon others for our trivial tasks? Why we feel like embarrassing alone without any company outside? The thing that we need to understand is that, a person is born as different individual. We all are bestowed with different identity and talents. Comparing one’s level of intellectuality and nature with others is merely a act of buffoon. Doing comparisons is the job of idlers, who are still far from the track of self- questing. One should never fall prey to comparisons between us and others, for we never know, what tormenting and achievements they have encountered and what has been done by us. Rather than that, one should concentrate upon our toil that, one has put upon in achieving our goals.
One should work upon this fact that, we are born as different individuals, packed with beautiful souls and spirits. As we are the most beautiful creation of God, so one should highly appreciate our existence and should have that feeling of gratitude for whatever we have.
“The breathe we just had,
is a blessing.”
Self- Motivation resides inside us. If we will switch on to positive track, we will indeed have it and if we will keep on regretting our fate and blaming our circumstances with the acid air of negativity, we never will be able to taste the realm of self- motivation, which is much far from these false assumptions. So, how we need to stay for self motivation: strong, focussed, self- determined, vigorous, enchanting and a positive interpreter. Having such attitude will automatically shrink the bridge between our deeds and success, and there lies the domain of success, which will be of no one, but ours.
“Do not change so people will like you,
Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.”