Dr Sahib Gorkha
Ever noticed why its “I” and not “Y” in happ’I’ness ? Simply because its only “I” who can make me happy and I should not waste even a second in searching for why (‘Y’) in it, simply because true bliss comes from within, straight from heart and there shudnt be any reason for it. When you are in search of a joke or person to make you feel happy, your probably making a strong statement about your weak soul..Alwaz remember, neither a person, nor a bunch of them, would fill you with the ultimate bliss, it always has to be a conscious effort on your part….go on, strive for it, you gotta go an extra mile to make your heart smile…For beginners, the moment you give the trigger of your happiness, in sum1 else’s hands, you can never be happy..
Now, talking about the basic hurdles in ur path for attainment of d ultimate bliss, the foremost thing that comes to mind is ‘love’.
Love has the power to lift you to heaven and also to drop you deep down, if you fail…
In case you fail to take your love life to a logical end, dont just sit down to cry with feet over ur head…Be a mature being, stand up and move on, there are millions of people around you, thousands ready to be friends with you, hundreds ready to go further, and of course you can get a handful perfectly built for you. Those who said “love happens only once”,were way too lazy to give it a second shot again….give urself a chance, world is a big stage and it can easily absorb your sorrows, just give it a try, why just sit and cry,, Go on run and smile…Those who stil want to cry because he/she was the best ever possible, go get a life buddy, every1 (including your “he/she”) was built by god in exactly d same manner as you. Every1 is just d same, so why give so much importance to sum1 who doesnt even deserve it. Try once, twice, even thrice, if it still doesn’t work out, its time to move on…remember, the one who should be with you….. would be with you, if it doesnt, it isnt meant to be… Learn dis quickly…..Half of the worlds problem lies in “failed love”, the rest half lies in “love”…..
Second big hurdle between you and happiness is success and career… To know dis answer, read the first line of dis article… Yes, the answer is “I”. Career is a decision which should solely be yours….no forcing, no compulsions, just passion…
Wen in doubt, Sit down and make a flowchart of events in the order of preference and then work by it…by tranferring ur problems to paper, you will notice many of them would be trivial enough to be erased, rest need to be dealt sensibly.. When u find urself in a conflict between heart and brain, go for the brain,coz there must be a reason why its placed at a level higher than heart….do what you actualy want, not what is right… Do it rightly, dats good enough..
Dont ever get bogged down by what people claim about you, they will alwas stop you from doing things they themselves cant do…so stand up, move out, breathe in fresh air, fill your lungs with confidence, raise your chin high, your still alive..you have the time as well as the people…start afresh, cheer up, smile let your soul breathe easy… You wil fèel lighter now, go on…. the stage is yours, perform…..The world is watching You !! Be Happ”I”…..Start Living !! Your still alive, keep Going…! Cheeeerrsss….!
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