Yes, appreciation is important…..

Aditi Kohli
You are beautiful ….. for you are fearfully and wonderfully made…..
Life of a woman is multifaceted, unlike men women have to face different aspects of life. There are women issues that they need to attend to such as their spouse, family, career, business, education, health and fitness and even raising kids. Women are blessed with the powers that enable them to handle numerous affairs at the same time. The role of a modern woman is helpmate, partner and inspiration. Helpmate in life, partner in procreation and parenting, and inspiration for living.  According to Lisa Sasevich,”My husband and I took at how much time we need as adults, how much time we need as a couple and how much family time we need”. A woman is usually the foundation that a home is built upon. Her primary role is often seen as firstly serving the family and her husband and secondly to provide safe and secure environment in which her children can grow and flourish, develop their personalities and talent and then move in the outer world to set up themselves.
“The origin of a child is mother, a woman, she shows a man what sharing, caring and loving is all about. This is the essence of a woman” – Sushmita Sen, Miss Universe , 1994.  A woman is always ready to contribute towards parenting. She works hard to educate her children, take care of the family members and take mental as well as physical pressures. The relationships made by her are on unconditional love and care. But yes, it is true – no one does appreciate her efforts. Motherhood is not a hobby. It is a calling. You do not collect children because you find them cuter stamps. This is not something to do if you squeeze the time in , It is what God gave you time for. A woman make the family live in peace and harmony, but to achieve this each member of the family must be aware of their responsibilities and duties. To have begun is to have done, half the task dare to be wise – Horace.
Appreciation is better shown than told
In a 2013 survey, it was found that mothers were more likely than fathers to report experiencing significant career interpretations. They devote more time than men on average to housework, childcare, and fewer or no hours to work.  Another factor is the way the society views the bond between mothers and their children. After doing all, still no woman is appreciated with such great tasks and all remain with the title of a “housewife” – which Google defines “a married woman whose main occupation is caring for her family , managing household affairs, and doing housework.”
Besides all these, statements like “A place for everything and everything in its place” – goes well with her personality. She also should look after herself – mind, body , spirit
* Try to get enough rest and sleep everyday, do light physical exercises to tone up mind and body.
* Eat well , eat healthier; – it’s not the diet , it’s called healthy eating.
* Enrich your thoughts with rich statements. Positive thoughts enrich the power of mind and provide a deep sense of reasoning.
* Fill up yourself with positive energy and try to reflect the same, which ultimately creates a chain reaction of positive thoughts.
* Be original, because an original is worth more than a copy.
* Also, Know when and how to say “NO” gracefully -“It’s only by saying ‘NO’ that you can concentrate on the thing that are really no important – Steve Jobs. And she needs to be strong enough to say – I will do my best and it will be enough.
I am not saying – showing more appreciation will make women happier, but I do believe appreciation will improve a woman’s relations. After all it’s like basket ball super star Kareem Abdul Jabbar once said – If not shown appreciation, it gets to you. And it seems that ‘it gets to you’ is leading more and more ‘I am done’. Arguments may win the situation but lose the person, but patience may lose the situation but win the person. So, have patience and think positive to level up.
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