Why men seldom succeed before 40?

Raghumani Singh
If you don’t wish to rely upon biographies of men not now living, take inventory of those whom you know to be men of great achievement and see if you can find one among them who is not highly sexed.
Sex energy is the creative energy of all genii. There never has been and never will be a great leader, builder,artist and scientist lacking in this driving force of sex. Surely no one will misunderstand these statements to mean that all who are highly sexed are genii. A man attains the status of a genius only when, and if he stimulates his mind so that it draws upon the forces available, through the creative faculty of the imagination. Chief among the stimuli with which this ‘stepping up’ of the vibrations may be produced is sex energy. The mere possession of this energy is not sufficient to produce a genius. The energy must be transmuted from desire for physical contact into some other form of desire and action, before it will lift one to the status of a genius.
Far from becoming genii, because of great sex desire, the majority of men lower themselves, through misunderstanding and misuse of this great force, to the status of the lower animals.
Mr Napoleon Hill discovered from the analysis of over 25,000 people, that men who succeed in an outstanding way, seldom do so before the age of forty and more often they don’t strike their real pace until they are well beyond the age of fifty. This fact was so astounding that it promoted him to go into the study of its cause most carefully carrying the investigation over a period more than twelve years.
The study disclosed the fact that the major reason why the majority of men who succeed do not begin to do so before the age of forty, is their tendency to dissipate their energies through over indulgence in physical expression of the emotion of sex. The majority of men never learn that the urge of sex has other possibilities which transcend in importance that of mere physical expression. The majority of those who make this discovery, do so after having wasted many years at a period when the sex energy is at its height, prior to the age of fortyfive to fifty. This usually is followed by noteworthy achievements.
The lives of many men upto and sometimes well pass the age of forty reflect a continued dissipation of energies, which could have been more profitably turned into better channels. Their finer and more powerful emotions are sown wildly to the four winds. Out of this habit of the male, grew the term “sowing the wild oats.”
The desire of sexual expression is by far the strongest and most impelling of all the human emotions, and for this very reason, this desire, when harnessed and transmuted into action, other than that of physical expression, may lift one to the status of a genius.
One of the most able businessmen frankly admitted that his attractive secretary was responsible for the most of the plans he created. He admitted that her presence lifted him to the height of creative imagination,such as he could experience under no other stimulus.
One of the most successful men in the world owed most of his success to the influence of a very charming young woman who had served as his source of inspiration of more than twelve years. Everyone knew the man to whom this reference is made, but not everyone knows the real source of his achievements.
History is not lacking in examples of men who attained to the status of genii, as a result of the use of artificial mind stimulants in the form of alcohol and narcotics. But, let it be remembered that many such men have destroyed themselvesin the end. Nature has prepared her own potions with which men may safely stimulate their minds so that they vibrate on a plane that enables them to tune into fine and rare thoughts which came from—no man knows where! No satisfactory substitute for Nature’s stimulants has even been found.
It is a fact well known to psychologists that there is a very close relationship between sex desires and spiritual urges-a fact which accounts for the peculiar behaviour of people who participate in the orgies known as religious ‘Revivals’ common among the primitive tribes.
The world is ruled and the destiny of Civilisation is established by the human emotions, not by reason so much as by ‘Feelings.’ The creative faculty of the mind is set into action entirely by emotions, and not by cold reasons. The most powerful of the human emotions is that of sex. There are other mind stimulants, some of which have been listed, but no one of them nor all of them combined, can equal the driving force of sex.
A mind stimulant is any influence which will either temporarily or permanently increase the vibrations of thought. The ten major stimulants described herein, are those most commonly resorted to:
* The desire for sex expression
* Love
* A burning desire for fame, power or financial gain.
* Music
* Friendship between either those of the same sex or opposite sex.
* A master mind alliance based upon the harmony of 2 or more people.
* Mutual suffering, such as that experienced by
presecuted people.
* Auto-suggestion.
* Fear
* Narcotics and alcohol.
Through these sources one may commune with Infinite Intelligence, or enter the storehouse of the subconscious mind, either one’s own or what of another person, a procedure which is all there is of genius.
A teacher who has trained and directed the efforts of more than 30,000 salesmen, made the astounding discovery that highly sexed men are the most efficient salesmen. The explanation is that the factor of personality known as ‘Persons Magnetism’ is nothing more nor less than the sex energy. Highly sexed people always have a potential supply of magnetism. Through analysis and understanding, this vital force may be drawn upon and used to a great advantage in the relationship between people.
The public speaker, orator, artist, lawyer, preacher or salesman who is lacking in sex energy is a ‘Flop’ as far as being able to influence others is concerned. The entire subject of sex is one which the majority of people appear to be unpardonably ignorant.
The urge of sex has been grossly misunderstood, slandered and burlesqued by the ignorant and the evil-minded, for so long that the very word sex is seldom used in the polite society. Men and women who are known to be blessed-yes, blessed-with highly sexed natures are usually looked upon as being peephole who will bear watching instead of calling blessed, they are usually called cursed.
Millions of people, even in this age of enlightenment, have inferiority complexes which they developed because of this false belief that a highly sexed nature is a curse. These statements of the virtue of sex energy should not be construed as justification for the libertine. The emotion of sex is a virtue only when used intelligently and with discrimination. It may be misused and often is to such an extent that it debases instead of enriching body and mind. The better use of this valuable power is the burden of this write up.
(The author is contractual Teacher Govt. Polytechnic, Bikram Chowk, Jammu)

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