EDITORIAL

Elephantine question

By virtue of its size elephant is always associated with something big and spectacular. There are people with elephantine memory. Some of us have elephantine appetite. Of course there is no dearth of people with real and hidden motives much like the two sets of teeth of elephants --- one meant for use and the other for just showing. Perhaps the only difference is that the poor animal has its wares in the full public glare. In the case of some members of our own ilk we may never be able to know what is cooking in their minds. We are on this subject this Sunday because Pakistan President Pervez Musharraf has found it quite in order to evoke the image of elephant in the context of India-Pakistan relations. He has in the process ended up in coming to the conclusion that whether in love or war elephants are equally deadly. At a gathering in Lahore recently he remarked that when two elephants fought the grass below was trampled. Although as an afterthought he added without losing time: ‘I am told that even when elephants make love the grass is trampled’. Everybody had a good laugh. Except one gentleman from Bangladesh who good-humouredly got up to remark that whether India and Pakistan took on each other or made amorous postures his country was always the grass. Certainly he did not mean to demean his country. Very politely but effectively he just highlighted the dilemma of smaller nations living in the vicinity of nuclear powers. It was subtle repartee. Nobody asked whether India and Pakistan should behave like elephants or not. There appeared to be unspoken consensus that people would be happy if the two countries lived like good neighbours. For, as they say, the neighbours don’t change normally and .......more

New strategy for J&K

By Sreedhar

Before analysing Pakistani Prime Minister Shaukat Aziz's visit to New Delhi on November 23 and 24, three factors need to be noted. Events of the past few years in Jammu & Kashmir indicate that from Pakistani perspective, the ......more

Mughal-e-Azam versus the ‘Rest’
TALES OF TRAVESTY

By Dr. Jitendra Singh

Dilip Kumar's feather strokes across the cupid bow mouth and lightly shut eyes of Madhubala create .....more

Kashmir-to-Kerala suspicious money transfers

By B L Kak

Suspicious transfers of large sums of money are no longer confined to, and operational in, the region of Jammu and Kashmir alone. Law enforcement agencies of the .......more

Indo-Pak peace moves

By V Mohan Narayan

It is no secret. Both India and Pakistan acknowledge that their relations are accident prone. At all times, the political leadership in the two countries have ........more

Travails of a woman

By Kusum Kesar

The Indian woman at present is bearing the wrath of double standards of our 'traditional' ......more

EDITORIAL

Elephantine question

By virtue of its size elephant is always associated with something big and spectacular. There are people with elephantine memory. Some of us have elephantine appetite. Of course there is no dearth of people with real and hidden motives much like the two sets of teeth of elephants --- one meant for use and the other for just showing. Perhaps the only difference is that the poor animal has its wares in the full public glare. In the case of some members of our own ilk we may never be able to know what is cooking in their minds. We are on this subject this Sunday because Pakistan President Pervez Musharraf has found it quite in order to evoke the image of elephant in the context of India-Pakistan relations. He has in the process ended up in coming to the conclusion that whether in love or war elephants are equally deadly. At a gathering in Lahore recently he remarked that when two elephants fought the grass below was trampled. Although as an afterthought he added without losing time: ‘I am told that even when elephants make love the grass is trampled’. Everybody had a good laugh. Except one gentleman from Bangladesh who good-humouredly got up to remark that whether India and Pakistan took on each other or made amorous postures his country was always the grass. Certainly he did not mean to demean his country. Very politely but effectively he just highlighted the dilemma of smaller nations living in the vicinity of nuclear powers. It was subtle repartee. Nobody asked whether India and Pakistan should behave like elephants or not. There appeared to be unspoken consensus that people would be happy if the two countries lived like good neighbours. For, as they say, the neighbours don’t change normally and it is in their own interest if they live with understanding.

Does it not sound strange that human beings almost invariably draw parallel with animals to find justification for their actions? Some of us bark on others but blame dogs for doing so. We make a mess of our affairs and yet don’t hesitate to invent idioms like monkey business. Look at our self-centeredness. We jump to our feet when we want to declare a person we love and adore as a lion. What has the king of a genuinely rich and natural jungle to do with our concrete and emotionless forest? The pity is that we don’t hesitate to cage the ‘monarch’ the moment we feel it has outlived its utility. It is a coincidence that we in this State have seen it happening to the leaders on whom we had bestowed the title of lion. What a historic story we have made out of the lion-goat relations in the downtown Srinagar in particular? In the case of Jammu, we have successfully spread a tale of lion and goat together drinking water from the Tawi that tempted Jambulochan to establish the city. In one instance we have made them ferocious rivals. In the other, we have not hesitated to say that they are the champions of communal harmony. Who can beat our ingenuity? We feel that we can treat them in the manner we deem fit. Is it not our good fortune that they don’t understand us and go about doing their business in the manner in which they like? They can’t read our wicked minds. That is what we think. Perhaps they know us better. Elephants at least seem to be more aware. That is why whether at war with each other or in love they are unmindful of their surroundings.

New strategy for J&K

By Sreedhar

Before analysing Pakistani Prime Minister Shaukat Aziz's visit to New Delhi on November 23 and 24, three factors need to be noted. Events of the past few years in Jammu & Kashmir indicate that from Pakistani perspective, the issue is not moving anywhere. From the Indian perspective, there are three elements which are acting as deterrents to the return of normalcy and the development of the State. First is Pakistan. In spite of three wars with India, Islamabad failed in its quest for occupying J&K by force. Having failed in military solution, it started, what western strategic community call, low intensity conflict and proxy war in 1988 culminating in Kargil war of 1999. It too failed to produce the desired results Islamabad wanted. In the post 9/11 it was forced to come to the conference table with India, to resolve the differences. In the process, Islamabad also realized that the international community is no longer viewing sympathetically to its claims on J&K; and its 'moral, political and diplomatic support' to terrorist activities in and around J&K, is not looked upon favourably. Further, India emerging as one of the lead players in the new global economic order, positioned Islamabad at a disadvantageous position.

Second is the Hurriyat conference. Over the years it emerged a sa front organization of Pakistan in Srinagar, repreenting only a microscopic portion of J&K population. Their silence to the atrocities being committed by terrorists made them of questionable bonafides. From the abduction of Mufti Mohammed Sayeed's daughter in end 1980's to the ethnic cleansing of the valley by driving out pundits to terrorist planned attack on the eve of Dr Man Mohan Singh's visit on 17/18 November 2004 placed them as people who have scant regard to composite Kashmiri culture, which is secular and plural. Their credibility further worsened with divisions in the Hurriyat over the strategy to deal with the issues involved. In the process, they emerged as a stubling block to the entire strategy of development of the region. Hurriyat's total silence since the organizations' formation on the Pakistani occupied Areas of J&K like Gilgit and Baltistan and ceding territory to China by Pakistan in 1963 questioned their loyalties. As a Kashmiri pointed out, Hurriyat is a group of people thriving on the miseries of Kashmiri people. Their leadership consists of people who thrived on converting Kashmiri sufferings into an industry and became rags- to-riches stories.

Lastly, it is not clear to any on regarding the credentials of the terrorists who parade themselves as Jehadis and Mujahideens (holy warriros) and who have been creating a mayhem in J&K over the years. In the initial years, the euphoria among the local population on the Jehadis has also disappeared now as they emerged as mercenaries ready to go and fight anywhere if they are paid properly. Personal profiles of some of the Jehadi leaders show that many of them are anti-social elements in Pakistan. In substance, they all add up as a group of people, operating from Pakistan and Pakistan occupied Kashmir, committing every cocneivable violation of human rights in J&K and creating hurdles for the economic development of the region.

In these circumstances the problems in J&K has to be dealt with at two levels. At one level, Pakistan has to be dealt with separately from the remaining two groups. Islamabad's mindset has to be changed to show that redrawing of the map of the region is not a feasible proposition in any given circumstances and rest of all the issues can be resolved peacefully through bilateral negotiations. This would mean, Pakistan has to reconcile to the fact that its claims on J&K are not correct. India understands that a 57-year-old mindset of Pakistan's Punjab, the only province laying claims on J&K, cannot undergo swift change overnight. In addition, Pakistan managed to sustain its claims on J&K by managing to make itself relevant to extra regional powers like the US in 1950s and 1960s as a part of cold war politics, to China in 1970s as a part of Beijing's quest for containing India, in 1980s again to the US during Soviet occupation of Afghanistan and now to the US war on terrorism. In retrospect, it appears that Pakistan raises its antenna on its perceived territorial disputes with India only whenever there is an external support to it. Even in the current situation, Islamabad, which was docile from 2001 to 2003 suddenly, started making noises after the US agreed to supply Pakistan with US $ 1.2 billion military aid. Now Pakistan even threatens it would revive the issue of plebiscite. Apparently India's assessment of the situation is that Pakistan cannot go back to Jehadi culture once again; and even of Islamabad wants, its donors will not allow Jehadi policy to continue.

Regarding Hurriyat, it lost its clout even in Valley after the 2003 provincial elections in the State. Their periodic hartal calls at best gets response in few mohallas of Srinagar. As a western diplomat who met them observed, Hurriyat has not changed with times. From plebiscite and independence in 1980s and 1990s, now the leaders of Hurriyat harp on human rights by security forces when the terrorists are committing more heinous crimes. The Hurriyat song of going to Pakistan to consult leaders across the boundary and the eagerness of its leaders to meet Pakistani leaders visiting Delhi and conducting parleyes with them has not endeared them to either Kashmiri peope or people in authority in Delhi and Srinagar. ''Hurriyat wants to sell J&K to Pakistan or make it a surrogate state of Islamabad', quipped a Kashmiri. In these circumstances, Government of India thought to dispensing with the special status given to Hurriyat by the NDA Government.

Over the years the Jehadis emerged as an impediment to peace and development in J&K. They emerged as a group of terrorists to work as a pressure point of Pakistan vis-a-vis India. However, in the post 9/11 global War on terrorism their relevance has come down considerably. With Pakistan getting on the defensive for aiding and abetting Jehadis, things are fast changing.

In this emerging new geopolitical scenario, Dr Man Mohan Singh's strategy is quite simple. He changed the priorities in J&K. During the last three decades, J&K emerged as one of the provinces with low poverty line. If it has to emerge on par with state like Punjab and Haryana, the people have to cooperate with his plans and shun groups like Hurriyat and Jehadis from disturbing the development process. He subtly but firmly told Pakistan that it could deal with it on J&K issue quite effectively. His statements in Srinagar on November 16 that any territorial claims on Pakistan will be addressed to only within the framework of existing boundaries.

Even though Hurriyat and its mentors in Pakistan are trying to give a moderate face to it, Dr Man Mohan Singh made no attempts to reach them in his two-day sojourn to Srinagar. In fact Hurriyat' urgency to meet Pakistani Prime Minister during his visit to New Delhi on November 23, has showed to every one where their interests are. If we go by the media reports, even Pakistan started dealing with them as one more group to deal with and not sole representative of J&K people. The Hurriyat and Pakistan protege, Jehadis too fal in the same category as a divided lot without any focus on J&K.

In this new scenario, Pakistan's hurry to clinch the issue in its favour at any cost is understandable. Their impatience is evident from the ideas that they are putting forward to resolve the J&K issue. In the process, they are sensitising their people that the J&K issue is a lost cause like that of Taliban in Afganistan. Shaukat Aziz is trying to do that exactly. In a way it is a good thing.-- CNF

Mughal-e-Azam versus the ‘Rest’
TALES OF TRAVESTY

By Dr. Jitendra Singh

Dilip Kumar's feather strokes across the cupid bow mouth and lightly shut eyes of Madhubala create an erotic fission that no amount of uninhibited leg-shaking, grion-jerking or coitus - simulation of today's remixed "Kanta Laga....." can match. That was the closest that the hero got to his beloved in the movie and yet the moist passion oozing from Dilip's yearning eyes had inspired surmises that during the decade - long making of Mughal-e-Azam in the 1950s, a real life relationship had gradually evolved between Dilip Kumar and Madhubala which incidentally remained as unfulfilled as the one between Prince Salim and Anarkali, the characters played by the two of them.

The rest is history. Madhubala's father refused his daughter the permission to act in B.R. Chopra's "Naya Daur" which involved outdoor travelling-cum-shooting with Dilip Kumar and instead went to the court over certain contractual issues where Dilip Kumar as a witness publicly professed "I love this woman and would continue to do so as long as I live". Meanwhile, the movie Mughal-e-Azam went on to become a hit with Prithviraj appearing more like Emperor Akbar than what the real life Akbar would have actually looked. The majestic gait and reverberating voice of Emperor Akbar, nay Emperor Prithviraj, continued to haunt for long after the lights had come on.

The biggest purpose that the recently released colour remake of Mughal-e-Azam has served is not only to offer K. Asif's magnum opus in colour and sound befitting its grandeur but to remind the film-makers as well as film-goers of 21st century India that it is still possible to produce successful, popular and commercially viable cinema without necessarily resorting to nouseating sex or obnoxious violence. This is evident enough from the box-office response received by coloured version of Mughal-e-Azam released over 40 years after the release of original version and the manner in which even the young new generation, often described today as the J. Lo generation, has responded to the movie with teary eyes and lumps in throats as the Salim-Anarkali saga goes down over-ruled by the supreme decree of Akbar the Great.

A good story-line enriched by imaginative direction, matching screen-play, crisp editing, diligent acting performance and melodious music is the key to any successful movie. It may or may not be supplemented with a saucing of avoidable sex and violence. This is the message from Mughal-e-Azam of 2004. Creativity, originality and professionalism have been the secret of many an all -time box office hits which were at the same time great pieces of art as well. If, for example, Dev Anand's "Guide", Guru Dutt's "Sahib Bibi Aur Ghulam" and Satyajit Ray's "Pather Panchali" proved this point decades ago, in recent years there have been striking instances of films like Sanjay Leela Bhansali's "Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam" and Yash Chopra's "Lamhe" which fall in the same category. There is also little rationale in the opinion expressed in certain quarters that movies devoid of an over-dose of nudity donot do good business as is evident from the examples cited above.

Finally, a film...... good or bad....... is a clear reflection of the good or bad of the prevailing social milieu. The common man must contend with the movies which are by and large only as good or as bad as the society in which he lives. Umapathy must contend with the creativity which cannot but help simulating what poet Sahir Ludhianvi wrote in his famous lines for Guru Dutt's "Pyaasa" — "----- Denge Wohi Jo Paaenge Is Jahan Se Hum!"

Kashmir-to-Kerala suspicious money transfers

By B L Kak

Suspicious transfers of large sums of money are no longer confined to, and operational in, the region of Jammu and Kashmir alone. Law enforcement agencies of the Central Government as well as in several States have discovered--indeed, established beyond doubt--clandestine financial inflows and outflows elsewhere as well, mainly through infamous hawala channels. It is virtually Kashmir- to-Kerala phenomenon.

At a time when open and secret funding of terrorism has acquired serious proportions, a higher degree of monitoring financial inflows and outflows has become more important than before. However, as the ambience in India, particularly in the troubled spots of the north-eastern region and Jammu and Kashmir, is corroded by political and civil service corruption, the task of carrying out effective and hassle-free monitoring of the flow of money into the hands of undesirables.

Some dreaded Islamist terrorist outfits, particularly Al Qaeda, continue to sharpen their knives against the United States and its allies. But these outfits have also much interest in South Asia, particularly India and Pakistan. These two countries are not exactly equipped to meet the challenge from those who are determed to finance terrorism. But New Delhi and Islamabad do not have identical mechanism to deal with the serious menace of suspicious transfers of large sums of money in the two countries.

Several Muslim countries, beyond the borders of India and Pakistan, cannot escape criticism of being involved in the money-laundering operations. In plain language, these operations have been too evident to be missed in Saudi Arabia and Gulf countries. It is not without reason that Saudi Arabia is the one nation that has received minute attention from those tracking terrorist finances. Gone are the days when Riyadh frequently indulged in protestations. Riyadh's tone and tenor underwent a seachange after terrorist assaults between May 12, 2003 and April 21, 2004.

The Saudis were left with no option but to enact laws aimed at curbing money-laundering. The Saudi authorities also devised regulations which would tighten supervision over charities and the formal and informal financial sector. This, however, has not stopped the flow of huge sums of money into Pakistan for the 'promotion of Islamic activity'. Do madrassas in Pakistan come within the ambit of this activity? What is of interest is the 'fact' that a large number of these madrassas have received Saudi funding to the tune of several million dollars. This funding has nursed the spread of jihadi culture in Pakistan.

In India, the scenario is not encouraging at all. Foreign-aided Islamist fundamentalists and rebels have several places, apart from Jammu and Kashmir, as their targets. Hardly had the Government of India under the Prime Ministership of Manmohan Singh started designing a strategy, a mechanism which could help stop illegal transfers of huge sums of money in J&K and the north-eastern region when the spotlights were on the unseen money-movers in Kerala. Mind-boggling account, indeed: Nearly Rs 708 crores received by underground money transfer system in Kerala in the 2000-2002 period.

New Delhi has, without any fanfare, rushed a team of experts to Kerala to examine the situation arising from the pieces of the hawala jigsaw slowly falling into place. Enforcement, police and intelligence agencies are reported to have identified 37 persons involved in the underground funds-transfer network originating in Dubai, with a non-resident Indian (NRI) businessman in the kingpin role of a gold-hawala dealer. This businessman reportedly used to collect remittances from Gulf-based Malayalees and ensure their delivery to their kith and kin in Kerala within hours.

The Union Government has received official inputs from Thiruvanthapuram, pointing out that key players in the network included many from Kerala and Mumbai, their relatives, employees or associates. The funds must have come to Mumbai initially as gold bars sent through couriers, using the liberalised laws allowing every air passenger who has stayed in a foreign country for six months to being in I0 kg of gold. The pattern unearthed so far fits the classic hawala mould.

Hawala is a system to transfer money from one part of the world to another through informal networks, independent of normal banking channels. Hawala system is illegal in India. On the other hand, it is more or less legal in many parts of the world, including West Asia. It has already been established beyond doubt that Dubai is the main source of gold and hawala fund flow into India.

Why are migrant workers from Kerala, especially those in the Gulf countries, fond of hawala system? They prefer to use this system as it offers better exchange rates and a faster and more reliable method of sending money home than the legal means of transferring money through banks and other financial institutions. Media reports insist that the system is built into the culture of certain Muslim-dominated north Kerala districts, where traditionally men seek employment in the Gulf and a sizeable number of uneducated women and the aged are left behind.

According to one estimate, the foreign funds coming into Kerala, Kashmir and several parts of north-eastern region of the country in the name of religious activity or charity, which is eligible for tax exemption, is also a possible hawala channel. The other end of the hawala network that operates in these States, as in other parts of India, is almost always in the UAE (United Arab Emirates), particularly Dubai.

A World Bank conference on migrant remittances in London last year was informed that a crucial institution through which these hawala transactions are organised is the UAE Exchange Centre in Dubai. Dubai is one of the main centres where streams of hawala transactions coming from various places are also consolidated and cleared.

No wonder the UAE Exchange Centre (Dubai) has already become a confluence of funds from the international hawala stream and the mainline banks. It is a place where various streams of hawala money could be consolidated into huge chunks of funds and swapped on a global scale.

Indo-Pak peace moves

By V Mohan Narayan

It is no secret. Both India and Pakistan acknowledge that their relations are accident prone. At all times, the political leadership in the two countries have to take into account domestic compulsions which have often taken precedence over other considerations and efforts to take bilateral ties to new heights.

It was no different this time in the run-up to the visit of Pakistan Prime Minister Shaukat Aziz in the last week of November.

Floating a trial balloon, President Pervez Musharraf suggested that India and Pakistan identify some zones in Kashmir on both sides of the Line of Control, delimilitarise them and either grant independence or put these regions under join control or UN mandate.

The initial Indian reaction was that this can be looked into if a formal proposal comes from Islamabad. But the far-reaching ramifications if such a step is ever contemplated soon sunk in.

Prime Minister Manmohan Singh utilise his maiden visit to Jammu and Kashmir to put it across firmly that there was no question of re-drawing the international borders or a further division of the country based on religion.

The message to Musharraf was loud and clear-Jammu and Kashmir cannot be bifurcated on any pretext and that the State will remain an integral part of India.

The Pakistan President responded by voicing his disappointment. He felt that signals from New Delhi were not encouraging and that there was need for it to show more flexibility if the relations were to move forward.

The fusillade of words cast a shadow over Aziz's visit and raised apprehensions of the two sides sliding back to hardline positions on Kashmir. The question being asked then was whether there would be a fallout on the ongoing composite dialogue process.

In one way, this worked to the advantage of both sides. There were no heightened expectations or media hype of any possible breakthrough.

Aziz, the first Pakistani Prime Minister to visit India in 13 years, the last one being that the Nawaz Sharif in 1991 when he came for the funeral of Rajiv Gandhi, arrived to a warm welcome.

Setting a positive tone for his meeting with Aziz, Singh sent a bouquet and followed it up with a telephone call to the Pakistan Premier, conveying his greetings to Musharraf.

It was from one economist to another. Singh told Aziz that the world has lived through times where what was simply unacceptable in international relations has become a norm.

Who could say some 20 years ago that the Berlin Wall would be a thing of the past, the Prime Minister remarked. And implicit in this was why can't India and Pakistan break our from the shackles of the past. So much can be done that will be mutually beneficial if only the two get together.

Singh did not mince words. His hope was that the two countries can set in motion a similar process in this subcontinent. The Prime Minister assured Aziz that he would earnestly and sincerely work to that end.

Sharing the mood of optimism, Aziz candidly stated that having Singh at the helm of affairs is a source of strength to all. He also conveyed Musharraf's warm regards to Singh. Singh and Musharraf had met for the first time in New York in September on the sidelines of the UN General Assembly session and struck a good chemistry.

Nagging differences on Kashmir issue persisted during the talks. The Pakistani side adopted a twin-pronged stragety. One, that without progress on this issue, it will be difficult to move ahead on other subjects and second, they were willing to discuss out of the box approaches to find a lasting solution to the 57-year old problem.

The Indian side pushed for a more pragmatic approach of building on the peace constituency, encouraging more people to people contacts and steps to build trust and confidence instead of rushing into taking hasting decisions.

As per of this, India is focussing more on stepping up people-to-people contacts. Hurdles in the way of starting the Srinagar-Muzaffarabad bus service are in the process of being overcome and may be operationalised in the first half of next year.

The Khokrapar-Munnabao rail link, which was stopped in 1965 in the wake of the Indo-Pak war, is also expected to be restored on October two next year.

New Delhi has also advocated that the Sino-India model be adopted by India and Pakistan to develop their relations. India and China have not permitted the vexed boundary problem to come in the way of improving bilateral ties. Sino-India trade is expected to touch 12 billion dollars by this year end, a reminder that New Delhi and Islamabad could also embark on this mutually beneficial path.

Keen to push the process forward, India has taken a number of unilateral steps including relaxing visa measures for Pakistani journalists, senior citizens, doctors, academicians and professors and those coming to attend conferences in India.

On the humanitarian front too, India has taken the initiative by releasing several Pakistani fishermen and civilian prisoners.

With religious shrines attracting devotees from both countries, the two sides have agreed on exchange of pilgrim groups. This includes visits by Indian pilgrims on the occasion of martyrdom of Guru Arjan Dev, Barsi of Maharaja Ranjit Singh and birth anniversary of Guru Nanak Dev.

Special bus services are also expected to be run between Amritsar and religious places in and around Lahore, such as Nankana Sahib.

Significantly, ceasefire along the international boundary, LoC and the Actual Ground Position line in J&K has successfully held since its implementation on November 25 last years.

Both sides are also working out modalities for reopening of their consulates in Karachi and Mumbai which were shut down in the wake of heightened tensions between the two countries.

India is also sponsoring the travel, stay and medical treatment of 20 Pakistani children. An equal number of children have already been treated, some with heart diseases, evoking widespread appreciation from Pakistan.

In December, the two sides have lined up several meetings to discuss a host of issues. This covers discussions at the experts level on conventional confidence building measures.

Though New Delhi has expressed its desire to engage Pakistan in a sustained and comprehensive dialogue and not be deflected by transient developments and contradictory pronouncements from across the border, there is realisation that complex issues like Kashmir have to be dealt with Patience.

There is a new mood in both countries to bolster ties. But this has to be reinformed by realism and not heightened expectations or quick-fix solutions.

PTI Feature

Travails of a woman

By Kusum Kesar

The Indian woman at present is bearing the wrath of double standards of our 'traditional' and 'modern' society. She is expected to carry on traditionalism but is criticized and labelled for being modern, too open minded when goes out of her home to work.

The beliefs & attitudes are being modified to bring awakening into her right to equality and freedom. On the other hand, certain social norms and practice are regarded absolutely essential though totally hollow. As the texture of life style is undergoing total transformation, she needs to bring a stability to the family economy by working and earning, is an admired 'daughter' and 'Bahu' but a thing to criticize if goes right or left slightly where family tradition matters. Inspite of many rights given in books and through serials, in media, she is empty handed a source of discussion, in search of her individuality, badly merged into family expectations and workload on both the fronts. Her personality is wanted to be dual in a fraction of second like a switch to be on & off.

She is 'one' to all, she is 'all in one' that is not possible for her though she has still very strong shoulders. A negligible number of families still exist that agree and accommodate to her responsibilities. But overall, an average Indian female is rather in a misery due to this so called modernity. As follies committed by her due to lack of time or stress strain reasons, are considered to be her personal property, but achievements made are distributed by whole of the family and society like a 'Birthday Cake.'

Unending duties towards family and society, whether working or non-working, she has to carry out solely, in nuclear or joint families, but for a 'sigh of relief' or a refreshing break she still has to look towards the permission given to her under the "Code of individual family conduct law and prestige" where is her freedom of mind.

On one hand, awakened woman is eager to fulfill her dream projects so she has a great value and love for her job, if working where she has to be open to a change by being aggressive for keeping her diginity and respect. She has to go to the work place by driving a scooty, Car or through public conveyance, making her ways herself keeping her at par with males. But what usually happens entering home & outside. As the law of equality has not gone inside the people mind, she has to face amazing stares, comments and becoming a source of discussion by so called male dominated society, that cannot be changed by any law.

At home, she helps her old-age parents or in-laws but is not allowed to be responsive to their tantrums and satires. Only one way is left for her if she wants peace and sustainability, and that is to bow her head, touch their feet, to make them feel, in high spirits, reminding her to forget her own self esteem, ambition and has to believe "Chankaya's verses" of keeping her under dominance.

Factual position is that she is progressive mind at times & traditional daughter in-law eating food after everyone else takes. This tussle of modernity and tradition is showing its result in the shape of 'singles' increasing. In metros many career oriented women prefer to remain spinsters. Marriages are breaking, children are suffering from family feuds and worst of all Indian values and faith in the institution of marriage is fading, giving rise to many psychological problems.

Bookish remedial measures are already there in shape of special protection Act Sec. 498-A of IPC, and many provisions like woman welfare cells, empowered legal rights are there but still a large number of women are unable to come out of the clutches of the slavery.

Reasons and remedies are very simple but time taking.

#Women must have knowledge and literacy of a kind that opens up their minds, bringing confidence and self trust.

#Belief in their own chastity and a vow to be a self defender without being offensive to any one. She does not need an escort to get anywhere.

#To come out of this double pressure first of all she has to understand herself modernity, society and law.

#Being modern does not mean to leave Indian values. Progress of mind is an addition that makes her a perfect woman.

#Society can be changed in one go even if we enact more & more protection laws. So she herself has to choose a middle with digestible to all genuine critics and to others she can show 'dont' bother' attitude.

The solution is with them and legal protection will give a coverage to it, helping her to really empowered.



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