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Lord Eric Avebury, Vice Chairman of the UK Parliamentary Human Rights Group after his tour of all the three regions of J&K has come out with factual position as regards many posers pertaining to this State. His wide inter-action with virtually all shades of opinion makers in the State has strengthened India's position. All this has been possible because the State is now opened up to visitors from any part of ..... more The electoral verdict in the recently held assembly elections in four State clearly indicate that voters cannot be taken for a ride by any Government in the State or at the Centre. The anger and anguish of voters for all the wrongs done by the incumbents does get reflected at the first opportunity of trial at the husting. While some setback were predicted for .....more |
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education and children By: Prof K R Gupta Indian society has reached such a level of
moral decay that sex is being glorified and no one is
doing anything constructive about it. Today, be it
newspapers, magazines ......more It begins with not
following moth-er's orders to brush your teeth at night.
It builds up to a cavity that rivals the world's
deepest....more A former Prime Minister said that even God would find it difficult to deal with corruption in India. ......more |
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EDITORIAL Lord Eric Avebury, Vice Chairman of the UK Parliamentary Human Rights Group after his tour of all the three regions of J&K has come out with factual position as regards many posers pertaining to this State. His wide inter-action with virtually all shades of opinion makers in the State has strengthened India's position. All this has been possible because the State is now opened up to visitors from any part of the world. They can see for themselves not only the sea-change in situation but also have first hand feel of peoples pulse which definitely beats on peace, progress and security. His understanding of the Hurriyat stand in particular is quite comprehensive in that he has no hesitation in concluding that Hurriyat is quite off course as regards its policies, perceptions and goals. In fact, it is a house vertically and horizontally divided and the remedies they seek are based on wrong diagnosis of the disease. They want things to happen which are next to impossible to achieve. They want to redefine constitutional status of the State which cannot be re-written. They want to hold elections in both parts of Kashmir simultaneously. To sum up in Avebury's words he describes Hurriyat stand as 'totally fantastic.' Nothing could be more condemnatory. Second aspect mentioned by Avebury is equally fine. He says that people of Jammu and Kashmir not only want peace and security but also good governance. This is definitely a point that needs to be considered in correct perspective. Bad governance invariably leads to disenchantment of the people and becomes the source for alienation. Good governance implies responsive and responsible Government free of corruption, nepotism and people-oriented policies that mitigate their hardships and not add to their woes. One expects popular Government to take note of this as also the massive verdict given by the people against bad governance that compounded peoples problems. The third point raised by Lord Eric is to effect improvement in human rights and expansion of democratic process. It is worth noting that one time vocal and strong critic of India on human rights violations in J&K is now a humbled person who only wants situation to become more transparent which in turn implies that he is now satisfied with human rights observance in the State. One really does not know what he means by expansion of the democratic process. It is a popular Government duly elected by people with voting percentage that compares favourably with the national average both in Lok Sabha as also assembly elections. Expansion of democratic process could mean going for Panchayat elections which have been repeatedly deferred. It also implies involvement of the people and creation of forums that strengthen people-administration ties. It is here that National Conference party and its cadres have to play pivotal role in bridging the credibility gap between people and the Government. Lastly Lord Eric has delved into ethnic cleansing aspects and feels that the environs for return of the KPs to Kashmir are not yet conducive due largely to the threat posed by foreign mercenaries. He is quite emphatic that indigenous content of militancy is now negligible and these are the foreign mercenaries who continue to disturb peace and tranquility of the people with frequent massacres of the hapless citizens. At this stage it is only an implied criticism of Pakistan for sending foreign mercenaries to J&K to sustain proxy war although he fails to mention Pakistan by name. His advice however is very clear that both countries should remove the sources of recurring border firing that kills innocent people. There is thus clean chit for this country as regards constitutional status of J&K, observance of human rights, existence of popular Government, condemnation of Hurriyat stand and presence of mercenaries thrust by Pakistan to cause chaos and mayhem in the border State. Transparency does pay good dividends and there is the imperative need of opening up further. The electoral verdict in the recently held assembly elections in four State clearly indicate that voters cannot be taken for a ride by any Government in the State or at the Centre. The anger and anguish of voters for all the wrongs done by the incumbents does get reflected at the first opportunity of trial at the husting. While some setback were predicted for the BJP but massive debacle in the three States do indicate something substantially wrong with the pattern of governance. It would quite be safe to rule out incumbency factor. If that were so Congress would have lost Madhya Pradesh as per exit poll predictions. That has not happened. The margin of defeat in Delhi and Rajasthan is decisive. There is thus the need for critical analysis of the major factors that have sent the people back into Congress fold after fairly long wilderness. First and the foremost factor pertain to secularism. The zealots of Hindutva have misread and mistimed their projections and the disastrous impact it had on the electoral fortunes of BJP as also its partners to some extent. Muslim minorities had rejected Congress wholesale despite various apologies and accolades offered by it. The Hindutva sloganeering and some unfortunate overzealousy displayed during run upto the elections which created fear psychosis amongst Muslims forced them back into Congress fold. That appears to be one reason for massive gains. Likewise, Christian minorities too became scared about BJP after certain happenings in Gujarat and that nuns rape case etc. All this did create problems within the coalition partners as well besides giving them on a platter to the Congress at a time when minorities needed reassurance about secular credentials of the BJP-led Government at the Centre and in the States. Second factor that has proved suicidal relates to abnormal rise in prices of many essential commodities. BJP continued to blunder and did not respond in time to retrieve the situation on price front. While onion production this year has been short only by 15%, the price escalation has been anything upto 600%. This clearly shows mismanagement. Same is true of edible oils. And when the BJP Government did not make any effort to raid hoarders and blackmarketeers it convinced the voters that BJP is a party of the traders and not the people. Third aspect relates to two agendas stemming from obvious differences in RSS and moderate BJP stalwarts. Varying voices continued to emanate from within which got reflected in factionalism that caused divide even amongst the committed cadres of the party. The able Prime Minister in A B Vajpayee thus became the twin victim of zealots and introverts from within. Voters did take note of such infighting and inconsistencies. Fourth, while Congress aggressively convinced the people of total non-governance by the BJP led Government with stress on items that affect them most, the BJP continued to harp on old themes of scams, scandals, corruption and failed to touch the most crucial aspect of controlling prices and reassuring minorities. The Congress for all its faults and past blunders thus gets the massive mandate. In the process, regional parties get the drubbing with near total rejection. This is a healthy sign of two-party system emerging. While Sonia's position is strengthened in Congress, Vajpayee's moderate line has to be accepted by overzealous people around if BJP wishes to regain lost ground. |
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By: Prof K R Gupta Indian society has reached such a level of moral decay that sex is being glorified and no one is doing anything constructive about it. Today, be it newspapers, magazines, television, cinema, internet, hoardings or posters, all of them are advertising sex. Promiscuity is being advised, extramarital affairs are being presented as fashion, adultery and wife swapping being discussed via them. Even the awareness programme started by National AIDS Control Organisation tells less about abstaining from sex outside marriage but emphasizes more on usage of condoms. Thus ironically in a Scenario where AIDS has openly challenged humans all over the world children are being falsely made to believe that life is nothing but sex. According to a recent survey one out of every 100 Indians between ages 18 and 45 is suffering from HIV positive. AIDS in adolescents is steadily increasing so much so that in every college classroom one or probably more students is HIV positive. Crime against women in the form of rape, molestation or sexual abuse is being committed by boys in their teens. As indicated by the survey most of the college boys, especially of metropolitan cities are losing their virginity in brothels. One in four within 16-20 years age limit is becoming involved with housewives including their friends. Childhood pregnancies are becoming common and abortions are accepted facts. Actors, actresses, models and beauty queens have become role models to both boys and girls who have converted roads into ramps and are bent upon making myth a reality for wrong as right. But most shockingly starting from age group 9 children have been caught kissing, pecking, necking the opposite sex not only in lonely areas and parties but also within the premises of schools. Many amongst them have either started visiting counsellors or asking them about questions related to orgasm, premature ejaculation, sexual arousal, masturbation, correct usage of condoms etc. Interestingly psychologists, psychiatrists, psycho analyist and counsellors who have suddenly acquired a very important place in society instead of advising parents, teachers and citizens to get together to fight against the harmful exposure are stressing the need to provide more sex education. Even when too much information about sex and sexual activities before time has made the western world obsessed with it and their children sick due to it, many amongst them are prescribing elaborate psychological and biological aspects of sex to children as a plausible solution to the problem. Although they dwell into the problems of mind, they are answering obscene and perverted questions asked through various columns in newspaper, magazines, talk show, completely ignoring impressionable minds who out of curiosity only might full pray to such information. But in a conservative society of India should elaborate sex education be provided to children in schools through counsellors? Can it provide solution to the ever growing problems like AIDS in children? Are the parents happy with the present scenario and do they want their children to be provided detailed sex education? The answer given to all the above questions is 'No.' India can never become America because of its completely different cultural, social and economical background. While in West, children might be provided with elaborate knowledge due to prevalent concept of free sex, in India matters concerning sex should be handled very tactfully and explained initially by parents as and when need be, and in case of problem only a counsellor be consulted. Although no one can undo the harm already done by the information explosion to today's generations yet curbs and conditions should be imposed by the Government so that the atmosphere becomes Saner. Innocence is bliss holds true in matters of providing sex education to children. The later the child comes to know about sexual activities, beauty fashion etc the better it is for its all round development as an individual. Kids Crave to Know:- "Children today, as never before, get conflicting signals on sex and sexual ethics. And they start depending on myths'' says Radhika Chandiramani, who runs a helpline called TARSHI. Teenagers are naturally inquisitive-about their own bodies and about the world around them. Today as their bodies mature faster-scientific studies prove the age of starting menstruation has come down to age nine or 10-they also find information on sex is widely available. Talk shows on adultery, seductive soaps like. 'The Bold and the Beautiful, titillating pictures on the Net. Even Indian TV serials are spiced with sexual metaphors. Says Asha Das Secretary, Women and Child Development in the HRD Ministry: "I've seen TV even in the West. But ours is much more suggestive with far more innuendoes.'' A 15 month study conducted on 100 adolescents found they took most of their pointers on sex from cinema. Admits Deepak, a 12 year old boy who thinks about girls all the time: "It's all there on TV-that's where I learnt how to patao (hook) girls.'' If television gives you the inclination, friends fill you in with details. In a study carried out by the department of community medicine at the All India Institute of Medical Sciences (AIIMS) in seven Delhi schools, one question was : Whom would you ask if you wanted to know something about sex? "Friends,'' replied the majority. Many school counsellors believe that peer group leads to intense pressure for a young boy to "score.'' Says Dr Achal Bhagat, a psychiatrist at Apollo Hospitals; "Sex becomes an important way of being with the group.'' He adds that more than any other generation in this century, children today experiment with sex, drugs, alcohol, "the good things in life,'' at a much earlier age. And parents just seem to add to the problem. New Age parenting is about dumping conservative values and wearing a more liberal, uninhibited face. In urban areas, girls are allowed out more easily, dating isn't altogether taboo and there is much less adult supervision. Says Sushma Sharma, child therapist: "This too has contributed to sexual permissiveness,'' Look at how a modern father deals with his son, "Don't tell me you still have the same girl friend? What signals could be picking up? "Probably that it's okay to have a new girl friend every week,'' says Sharma. Recently in an elite Delhi School, a teacher caught a seventh grade boy kissing and petting a classmate. When his parents were summoned, the mother, described as a "high society'' woman teased the school for being old fashioned. |
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